controller: Add option to force destruction of an IKE_SA

It's optionally possible to wait for a timeout to destroy the SA.

src/libcharon/plugins/vici/vici_config.c

@@ -2083,7 +2083,7 @@ static void clear_start_action(private_vici_config_t *this, char *peer_name,
 				while (array_remove(ikeids, ARRAY_HEAD, &id))
 				{
 					DBG1(DBG_CFG, "closing IKE_SA #%u", id);
-					charon->controller->terminate_ike(charon->controller,
+					charon->controller->terminate_ike(charon->controller, FALSE,
 													  id, NULL, NULL, 0);
 				}
 				array_destroy(ikeids);

src/libcharon/plugins/vici/vici_control.c

@@ -326,7 +326,7 @@ CALLBACK(terminate, vici_message_t*,
 		}
 		else
 		{
-			if (charon->controller->terminate_ike(charon->controller, *del,
+			if (charon->controller->terminate_ike(charon->controller, *del, FALSE,
 											log_cb, &log, timeout) == SUCCESS)
 			{
 				done++;