In some cases the third message of a Quick Mode exchange might arrive
after the first message of a subsequent Quick Mode exchange. Previously
these messages were handled incorrectly and the second Quick Mode
exchange failed.
Some implementations might even try to establish multiple Quick Modes
simultaneously, which is explicitly allowed in RFC 2409. We don't fully
support that, though, in particular in case of retransmits.
Fixes#1076.
As we now use the same reqid for multiple CHILD_SAs with the same selectors,
having marks based on the reqid makes not that much sense anymore. Instead we
use unique marks that use a custom identifier. This identifier is reused during
rekeying, keeping the marks constant for any rule relying on it (for example
installed by updown).
This also simplifies handling of reqid allocation, as we do not have to query
the marks that is not yet assigned for an unknown reqid.